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Singapore has a thriving online dating scene with local apps, expat-friendly platforms, and niche sites to suit different intentions. This guide covers the most popular options and tips for dating safely as a foreigner.
If you’re new in Singapore and want to meet new people, one great way to do so is to go on dates. As Singapore is so technologically advanced, online dating is very popular.
There are plenty of dating apps and sites to choose from, some of which you may already be familiar with. But knowing which ones are popular among the locals can help improve your chances of matching with one.
This guide can help you navigate these dating apps so you can get straight to meeting locals or other expats.
Key Takeaways
- Meeting someone in person is nice, but it doesn’t happen very often anymore. In Singapore, people have moved on to online dating as there are plenty of niche and general dating apps available to suit different preferences.
- While Singapore is a very safe country, you still should beware of fake profiles when online dating, and ensure you schedule the first date in public to keep everyone safe.
- Using a Singaporean dating app, like Kopi Date or Paktor, can improve your chances of finding a local partner, while other dating apps like Tinder or Bumble are more geared towards other expats.
- If you’re religious or have specific dating preferences, use a niche dating app like Christian Connection.
Online Dating Boom
It’s common for many older Singaporeans to have met their husband or wife through family members or friends. But for the young crowd, meeting a romantic partner through online dating is a lot more popular.
There are hundreds of dating apps and sites; some of these are for a general audience, like Tinder, while some are for niche users like Muzz (formerly Muzmatch), a dating site for Muslims.
Choosing a dating app that suits your intentions and interests can help you find someone you can genuinely connect with.
Quick Tips for Online Dating in Singapore
Before choosing the right dating app for you, consider the following tips on what to do and what not to do when using these apps in Singapore.
Be Direct When Looking for a Potential Date
If you’re an expat living in Singapore, you may have noticed that Singaporeans can be straightforward. Comments that may seem rude to expats may not be for Singaporeans; I just had to get used to people calling me ‘big’ all the time.
This is why it pays to be direct yourself. Or expect your date to be frank, as well.
In Singapore, discussing topics commonly perceived as taboo, such as political beliefs, salary, or religion, may not be off-limits. One way to find out what subjects you can and can’t talk about is to have a conversation with the person you’re going on a date with beforehand via text. This can help avoid any awkwardness while you’re on an actual date.
Some Singaporeans may be looking to settle down so they can move out of their family home, but others are happy to just be casually dating. So when going out with someone, it’s best to be upfront about what you’re looking for to make sure you’re both on the same page.
Read our guide to dating as an expat in Singapore to find out more dating tips for expats. Expats new to Singapore often report that Bumble’s BFF mode is underused but genuinely effective for meeting both potential dates and friends in the first few months — the women-message-first format also tends to attract more serious users than pure swipe apps.
Beware of Fake Profiles
Catfishing, an activity in which a person pretends to be someone else online, is common on dating apps used worldwide, including Singapore.
I experienced being catfished myself, but luckily I realized soon enough that the man I was talking to was using fake pictures before I decided to meet up with him.
Free dating apps tend to attract more fake profiles, so be especially careful on those platforms.
The Singapore Police and expats both warn about a rising pattern of love scams, where a match quickly steers the chat toward a crypto or investment opportunity. Never send money or invest based on someone you have only met online, no matter how genuine the conversation feels.
Try video chatting with your matches before meeting with them or asking for their social media profiles to get to know them better.
Post Interesting, Modest Pictures of Yourself
Like most of Asia, Singapore is still quite conservative. So, when choosing pictures to use for your profiles in dating apps and sites, pick ones that are modest.
Many dating apps and sites ban photos that are too revealing and can kick you off the platform if you post them on your profile. To be safe, just avoid posting photos that may be deemed ‘too sexy’.
Meet People in Public First
Although Singapore is one of the safest countries in the world, it’s always better to be cautious when meeting up with someone you met online for the first time.
When making plans, suggest somewhere public for at least the first meet-up. This ensures safety and, at the same time, gives you an opportunity to discover places you haven’t been to, so it’s a win-win.
There are plenty of great bars and restaurants around Singapore. My favorite area to take a date is Arab Street, as there are many places with live music and delicious food — one of the best neighborhoods to explore as a newcomer.
Singapore Dating Websites and Apps
Since Singapore is such a small country, not many Singaporeans opt to sign up for international dating sites and apps. Some Singaporeans even took matters into their own hands and created dating apps that cater mostly to locals and those who are located in Singapore (i.e., foreigners). Here are two platforms that you can try:
Kopi Date
Who’s using it: People in their 20s and 30s
What they’re using it for: Finding something serious
Zhiqun and Jing Lin started Kopi Date in 2018 as a spontaneous social experiment, but it’s turned into a type of matchmaking service.
To start, you sign up and complete a curation card outlining who you are and what you’re looking for in a partner.
Then, in one to eight weeks, you’ll complete an onboarding call with a Kopi Artisan with news about your anonymous date. They’ll help you schedule everything, so you can just show up to your date at a partner venue.
Not only does this style of dating save you time, but it also humanizes the online dating experience and increases the chance of you finding someone you’re actually compatible with.
The main thing that might put you off is the price. Kopi Date now sells membership plans of 3, 6, or 12 dates, starting from around S$80 per date, with no gender-based pricing. This covers the whole process of a Kopi Artisan finding and scheduling your date, plus a complimentary beverage.
You can also purchase six credits at a time to get 15% off or 12 credits at a time to get 30% off.
Klick
Who’s using it: People in their 20s and 30s
What they’re using it for: Finding friends and/or meaningful connections
In 2019, Nelson Quek, a Singaporean who wanted to combine social media with online dating, created Klick solely with his own funds.
He wanted users to be able to get to know one another instead of deciding to meet someone just based on appearance.
With Klick, not only can users upload profile pictures, but they can also post updates and photos, like on social media.
Quek wanted to make the online dating experience more human, so he didn’t create a matching algorithm. Instead, when a user posts an update, they appear on other people’s home pages, so they may receive likes and messages.
Klick is free to download on iOS and Android, you just need to be at least 18 years old to use it. Note that Klick has a much smaller user base than the mainstream apps on this list and activity appears to be limited — if you don’t get traction within a week or two, it’s worth switching to one of the larger platforms.
Paktor
Who’s using it: A wide range of users across Asia
What they’re using it for: Casual dating or long-term relationships
Joshua Phua and Ng Jing Shen launched Paktor in Singapore in 2013. Since online dating was still new in Asia at the time, the app took off and is now available in Taiwan, Malaysia, Thailand, South Korea, Indonesia, and Vietnam.
There are now over 20 million users across Asia. In 2024, Paktor merged with Lunch Actually to form the Lunch Actually Paktor Group, though both brands continue to operate independently.
Using Paktor is super easy as all you need to do is choose your best photos and showcase your hobbies or interests. This allows other users to find common ground with you to get a conversation started if you match.
You can swipe through profiles or use Paktor’s search filters to find your ideal match.
Paktor is free to download, but on a free account, you can only look through profiles and swipe right or left on them. To get access to more features, you need to purchase a premium membership.
Choose between the following membership options (in USD):
- 1 month: US$29.50 a month
- 3 months US$25.07 a month
- 6 months: US$19.17 a month
- 1 year: US$17.21 a month
Dating Apps in Singapore for Expats
If you want to meet other expats, using a dating app popular among expats can help. Here are some of our favorite options:
Tinder
Who’s using it: Users in their 20s and 30s
What they’re using it for: Casual relationships/dating
Even if you’re new to online dating, you’ve likely heard of Tinder before. It’s one of the most popular dating apps in the world, with over 75 million users.
Sean Rad, Justin Mateen, and Jonathan Badeen started Tinder in 2012 in the United States, but the app is now available in over 190 countries, including Singapore.
Since it’s so popular, you will find many locals on it; you’re just more likely to find other expats or tourists. Tinder remains the most-used dating app in Singapore, with Coffee Meets Bagel in second place, and it still has one of the largest user bases globally.
Users can upload up to nine photos, write a short bio, then start swiping. Tinder typically shows you users who are in your area, so you won’t even have to travel far for a date.
Most people use Tinder to find casual relationships, but many of my expat friends met their husband/wife on the app. On Tinder, you never know what you’ll find!
Tinder is totally free to use with the option to pay for additional features, such as priority likes or a rewind for when you accidentally or mistakenly skip someone you’re interested in.
If you’re interested in getting a membership, you can choose between three types: Tinder Plus, Tinder Gold, or Tinder Platinum, all with different features, which you can find here.
Bumble
Who’s using it: A wide range of users in their 20s to 50s
What they’re using it for: Friendship, business connections, or long-term relationships
Whitney Wolfe Herd created Bumble in 2014 as an alternative to traditional dating apps, with a focus on creating a safer space for women.
Men typically outnumber women on dating apps, so women can be overwhelmed by messages, many of which take on a harassing tone.
To reduce the chances of this happening, Herd created Bumble, an app where women must message the man first. Otherwise, the match disappears.
Bumble has three modes: Date, BFF, and Bizz. This lets you find a relationship (Date), friendship (BFF), or business connection (Bizz) on the app.
I used Bumble BFF during my first few months in Singapore and met someone who is now one of my best friends on the app. It’s a great app to use to meet people when you’re new to the country.
Bumble is free to use but has limited features beyond matching and messaging. You can try one of Bumble’s paid memberships, Bumble Boost or Bumble Premium, for better results.
OkCupid
Who’s using it: Users primarily in their 20s, 30s, and 40s
What they’re using it for: Friendship, casual relationship, or long-term relationship
Four Harvard students started OkCupid in 2004. Although it’s one of the older dating sites on our list, it’s still very popular, even in Singapore.
OkCupid also differs from the aforementioned dating sites in that users need to answer a multiple-choice questionnaire when they sign up.
The site asks you a series of questions, which they call OkCupid Prompts, to get to know you, your interests, and your preferences in a partner.
There are only 15 questions, so signing up shouldn’t take that long. OkCupid then uses your answers to calculate your compatibility rate with other users, which can help you find someone you may have something in common with.
On this platform, you can look through profiles yourself. And if you both swipe right on each other, you match and can start talking.
OkCupid is free to use, but you have the option to purchase a membership so you can get access to additional features like a boost that makes your profile become more visible among users.
OkCupid has three membership options: basic, premium, and incognito. Basic gives you access to features like no ads and unlimited likes, premium membership has features like letting you see who liked you, and incognito allows you to hide your profile from anyone you don’t like or message.
Coffee Meets Bagel
Who’s using it: Users in their 20s and 30s
What they’re using it for: To find a long-term relationship
You may have noticed that a lot of the apps we’ve discussed feature a swiping method of matching with people. You swipe right if you’re interested and left if you’re not.
However, this isn’t the case on Coffee Meets Bagel. Instead of endlessly swiping, you receive daily match recommendations at noon.
Sisters Arum, Dawoon, and Soo Kang conceived Coffee Meets Bagel in New York City in 2011 and launched it in 2012. The app is now international and Singapore is the country with the second-highest number of users on it.
Its unique method of offering match recommendations based on compatibility allows you to focus on high-quality matches so you can find something serious.
Using Coffee Meets Bagel is free, but you can pay for a membership that gives you access to additional features like activity reports, read receipts, and a monthly profile boost.
Hinge
Who’s using it: Users in their 20s and 30s
What they’re using it for: Casual dating or finding a serious relationship
Built around written prompts and voice notes rather than just photos, Hinge makes conversations easier to start. Expats who find other swipe-heavy apps too superficial often prefer Hinge for more substantive matches.
Hinge is free to download on iOS and Android, with an optional paid membership for features like seeing who liked you and advanced filters.
What Dating Apps Actually Cost in Singapore
Every app on this list is free to download, but the paid tiers are where the real features live (seeing who liked you, unlimited swipes, more filters). Prices shift by promo, platform, and how long a plan you buy, so treat these as current ranges rather than fixed numbers and check the app before you pay.
- Tinder Plus/Gold/Platinum: roughly S$22 to S$56 a month depending on tier and length of plan, cheaper per month on longer plans
- Bumble Boost/Premium: roughly S$14 to S$27 for a week, with better per-week rates on longer subscriptions
- Hinge Preferred Membership: similarly priced to Tinder Gold, usually sold in 1, 3, and 6-month blocks
- OkCupid Basic/Premium: from around S$11 up to around S$29 depending on the plan length
- Coffee Meets Bagel Premium: roughly S$45 to S$91 depending on subscription length
- Kopi Date: sold as date packages rather than a monthly fee, from around S$80 a date on the biggest package up to over S$120 a date on the smallest one
If you’re only testing the waters, stick to the free tier on two or three apps before paying for anything. Most expats find one app where they get real matches within a few weeks; that’s the one worth upgrading.
Which Dating App Is Actually Most Popular in Singapore
It’s tempting to crown a single winner, but the data doesn’t agree on one. In a YouGov survey of Singapore dating app users, Tinder was still the most-used app, with Coffee Meets Bagel close behind in second, and OkCupid and Bumble tied for third by usage.
App store charts tell a slightly different story. Hinge and Bumble have both been climbing the free app rankings on Google Play Singapore, which suggests they’re picking up new downloads faster even if Tinder still has the bigger existing user base. In practice, this means the “best” app really depends on what you want. Tinder still has the largest pool of people to match with, Coffee Meets Bagel and Hinge tend to attract people looking for something more deliberate, and Bumble is worth a look if you’d rather not deal with men messaging first.
Niche Dating Apps
Using a niche dating app that meets your needs and interests can improve your chances of finding someone you’re compatible with. Here are two of the best niche apps for people in Singapore:
Christian Connection
Who’s using it: People in their 20s to 40s
What they’re using it for: To find long-term relationship or marriage
Another great religious dating app is Christian Connection. The site was founded in 2000 in the United Kingdom but is now available in Singapore, Hong Kong, Australia, New Zealand, and Canada.
There are plenty of Christians in Singapore, so this is the perfect dating site to meet them.
One of the best parts of Christian Connection is that the site hosts in-person dating events, which lets you experience the best of both worlds.
Unlike other dating apps, Christian Connection doesn’t require you to match with someone to send them a message. This allows you to send messages to users you’re interested in, which then helps you to stand out.
Christian Connection recommends avoiding making compliments on someone’s physical characteristics to prevent making anyone feel uncomfortable. Instead, users are encouraged to comment on the non-physical aspects of a user’s profile.
Basic membership is free, but with this, you’re only able to like profiles and respond to messages with preset responses.
Whatever Happened to Singapore’s Government Matchmaker?
If you’ve read older guides to dating in Singapore, you may have come across mentions of the Social Development Unit or Social Development Network (SDN), a government body under the Ministry of Social and Family Development that ran matchmaking events and accredited private dating agencies. It’s a fair question to ask about, since Singapore is one of the few places that ever tried to officially organize its singles’ love lives.
That program is gone. The government stopped accrediting dating agencies under the SDNTrust Mark at the end of 2022, and SDN itself shut down its website in late 2023 after membership had been declining for years as more singles moved to apps. So if you go looking for a government dating portal to sign up for today, you won’t find one.
There’s one thing worth watching, though. In April 2026, GovTech ran a public survey testing a concept called Firstdate, a Singpass-verified dating service for singles under 35 that would pair matches with a free first meal. A GovTech spokesperson confirmed this is still “a very early, exploratory stage” idea with nothing greenlit, so don’t expect it to launch anytime soon. For now, the private apps below are your only real options.
Now, on to You
With so many dating apps and sites on the market, choosing the best one for you can be tough. If you know what you’re looking for, the right dating app can help narrow down your choices. So think about what you want before signing up for any dating app.
No matter which app you choose, you’re sure to meet some interesting locals or other expats, helping you get more acquainted with your new home country.
As most dating apps are free or offer a free trial, what have you got to lose?
Frequently Asked Questions
Is there still a government dating service in Singapore?
No. The Social Development Network (SDN), the government body that used to run matchmaking events and accredit dating agencies, shut down its website in late 2023 after the accreditation scheme ended in 2022. GovTech floated a new concept called Firstdate in 2026, but it’s still just an early-stage survey with no confirmed launch date.
Do I need to pay to use dating apps in Singapore?
No, every major app on this list, including Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, OkCupid, and Coffee Meets Bagel, is free to download and use for basic swiping and messaging. Paid tiers unlock extras like seeing who liked you or unlimited likes, and they’re optional.
What’s the best dating app for expats specifically?
Tinder and Bumble tend to have the biggest expat crowds since they’re global apps with a large presence in Singapore. If you want to meet other expats for friendship rather than romance, Bumble’s BFF mode is worth trying too.
Can foreigners use Kopi Date, Klick, or Paktor?
Yes, none of these apps restrict sign-ups to Singapore citizens. Paktor in particular was built with the wider Southeast Asian market in mind and now sits under the Lunch Actually Paktor Group after the two companies merged in September 2024.
Are dating apps safe for expats new to Singapore?
Singapore is a low-crime country, but online love scams are real. The Singapore Police Force logged 917 internet love scam cases in 2025 with about S$24.9 million lost, and the current pattern usually involves a match steering the conversation toward a crypto or trading platform. Never send money or move to an outside investment app based on someone you’ve only met online.
Is Muzz the same app as Muzmatch?
Yes. Muzmatch rebranded to Muzz in 2022 after a UK trademark dispute. It’s still the same app for Muslim singles, just under a shorter name.
Sources Cited
- Ministry of Social and Family Development, Singapore
- Singapore Police Force advisory on cryptocurrency and romance scams
- Official Lunch Actually and Paktor merger announcement (PR Newswire)
- Kopi Date official site (current pricing)
- Tinder Help Center, subscription tiers
- YouGov, dating app usage and popularity survey, Singapore
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